Kellyable

People like to tell me how much they dislike online dating apps: “Oh, it’s just not for me”; “Oh, people just want to have sex”; “Us girls get lied to a lot on those apps”; “Oh, us guys never get lucky with girls”; “Oh, I’m constantly being ghosted”... Well, they are preaching to the wrong choir here! I’m all for dating apps, I spent almost a year using them and I met the love of my life through one, so don’t knock it until you try it, I say! Even though I have a bad story or two... Seriously, now, not all people enjoy online dating and that is completely fine, but for those who are curious but afraid, let me give you some tips to make your journey easier. 1.     Always be honest! If you are looking for a relationship, say so. If you just want sex, say so. If you are looking for friendships, say so. Because people assume that dating apps are just for one-night stands, they are afraid to let the others know that they are looking for more than just that. And ...

This story is fresh, because it just happened last week. So, this guy messages me, he’s pretty cute so I reply. After 2 or 3 messages he gives me his number and tells me to call him. That was kind of forward to me because I hadn’t even formed an opinion about this person yet. We barely talked! But he sparked my interest, I took the bait and I called. In 30 minutes, I found out about his 2 jobs, his 2 cars, his friend that died and his sexual fantasies and adventures. And I barely got a word in… Instead of labeling this as a red flag, I accepted having coffee with him, in that same week. 2 days go by and we decide to meet. He’s been going on and on about how much he wants to meet me and be with me, so I’m feeling kind of curious. We met at the mall because I’m not trying to get killed by my date (you better know your Tinder dates rules!) and the first thing he does is complain about how crowded the place was and how he wanted to go somewhere more private. And that’s Red F...