Staying in Touch
“You promise to stay in touch with people, but it doesn’t work out. It
never does.”
Whoever said this never made real friends, geez…
When I was in middle-school and high-school the phrase “Lets keep in
touch and make plans for the summer!” was a must at the end of the year. Of
course, as expected, there were never any plans and no one kept in touch. Or
almost no one.
Now that I find myself looking back, I always had a group of friends in school
(it would change every year, but still) and we were inseparable… in school
only. When it was time to come home on vacations or holidays we wouldn’t do
stuff together, we wouldn’t even talk! And now I realize that I wasn’t even
into most of those “friends”. It’s strange how your brain forces you into that
group mentality in school. As if you are “weaker” if you’re not in a “pack”.
There are only 2 exceptions in my case, 2 girls that I’ve kept around through
thick and thin. One I’ve known since pre-school (now 16 years) and the funny
thing is, although we’ve always got along, we’ve only become close around the 8th
grade which, curiously, was when the other girl came into the picture. So, I
guess we created this Trinity and we’ve stuck together ever since. I feel like
we complete each other, I love those girls as sisters.
We’ve always made plans, we’ve always kept in touch (of course, now more
than ever) and because of that I say that you don’t have to worry about not
making plans with your school friends. If they don’t feel the need to reach out
to you and/or vice versa, it’s because you’re really not that close. When the
real, good friends come along, you’ll know!
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